Anyone addicted to escorts and is broke?

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Re: Anyone addicted to escorts and is broke?

Post by MassageMan » Fri Jan 10, 2020 2:53 pm

pussi wrote:
Fri Jan 10, 2020 12:50 pm
Create a little kitty only for punting. If you're searching AW/SA and getting horny just whack one out and you'll be fine.
If you can manage then that is a good solution. Many times I have put on some good porn and had a wank and just as I was cumming I thought "thanks fuck, that just saved me a hundred quid" :lol:
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Re: Anyone addicted to escorts and is broke?

Post by LEEMOD » Fri Jan 10, 2020 3:03 pm

I deffo agree with this, many times I have woken up with the intention of a punt but then had a wank and the urge decreases, just pick a date next month or something and save that date in mind, something to look forward to. I tend to not punt for weeks sometimes then sometimes I'll have two in a week, sometimes like most things it's better in moderation.
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Re: Anyone addicted to escorts and is broke?

Post by CPbare1 » Fri Jan 10, 2020 5:15 pm

LEEMOD wrote:
Fri Jan 10, 2020 3:03 pm
I deffo agree with this, many times I have woken up with the intention of a punt but then had a wank and the urge decreases, just pick a date next month or something and save that date in mind, something to look forward to. I tend to not punt for weeks sometimes then sometimes I'll have two in a week, sometimes like most things it's better in moderation.
Think for many, a punt becomes a habit. You become jaded, just going because you always do on a friday. You see girls you dont really fancy cos you can.

time to take a break, then find a corker to go back into it with.
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Re: Anyone addicted to escorts and is broke?

Post by CrazyBastard » Sat Jan 11, 2020 4:46 am

Tbh if I didnt have a job/income then punting would be the last thing on my mind. I can only afford to punt every now and then since I work 2 jobs with the ridiculously high price of rent, bills and food in this country. Only the best looking guys get one night stands for free I'm afraid. The other 80% have to pay.
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Re: Anyone addicted to escorts and is broke?

Post by CPbare1 » Sat Jan 11, 2020 8:08 pm

CrazyBastard wrote:
Sat Jan 11, 2020 4:46 am
Tbh if I didnt have a job/income then punting would be the last thing on my mind. I can only afford to punt every now and then since I work 2 jobs with the ridiculously high price of rent, bills and food in this country. Only the best looking guys get one night stands for free I'm afraid. The other 80% have to pay.
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Re: Anyone addicted to escorts and is broke?

Post by Rogerthedodger » Thu Jan 16, 2020 2:37 pm

Ozzman244 wrote:
Fri Jan 10, 2020 10:34 am
rothman wrote:
Fri Jan 10, 2020 8:45 am
Ozzman244 wrote:
Fri Jan 10, 2020 12:56 am
Well i got bored very quickly and i wasn't good at picking up girls.

I picked up one polish girl and then later she blocked me (i was too drunk to climax). I think after that and a few failed hookups i just said fuck it, I'm making money, why dont i fuck escorts and thats how i got addicted.
Ozzman244 wrote:
Fri Jan 10, 2020 12:59 am
even if i get a £250-300 loan? I see on this loan comparison sites, i can pay the full amount or pay like for example, £50 a month? which is probably questionable but not too bad.

btw it's not even for sex, i just need money to survive. I have an alcoholism problem too and quite frankly i cba to find a job and work with cunts anymore.
So you are making money but cba to find a job, you also have an alcohol and prostitute addiction.....

I think you are pulling our legs sunshine, best to stop wanking over the internet and concentrate on your homework before you end up with a detention.

Idiot
I had a job before i lost it on Christmas. Now i'm broke, I'm unemployed right now and cba to get a job because i'm too bloody depressed.

Read it properly before you judge
With rothman on this - sounds like a fantasy and your comment about being depressed only came out AFTER rothman caught you out. If you are depressed, do something about it. At the very least seek medical advice but don't rely on sex and booze to be the cure all; in all probability it was those that caused your depression in the first place!
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Re: Anyone addicted to escorts and is broke?

Post by Dave84 » Thu Jan 16, 2020 4:51 pm

I used to spend a fortune on escorts, never thought of the financial consequences and to be honest stupidly never even understood much about finance. I ended up in a similar position as you at one point and it is still having a negative effect on my life.

When I left school I went straight into work while all my mates went to college so I was always the one with money and had enough to do what I wanted. This was the case for a few years and although I was always ok at pulling on a night out I loved paying for sex and did it fairly regularly.

When my mates wages caught upto mine we ended up going out more, lads weekends away and holidays more frequently, my disposable cash soon dissapeared and I now couldn’t do it all but I didn’t stop. I got a loan and credit card to keep enjoying myself and do what I want. I found a fantastic girl who was a bit more expensive and got a second credit card to to pay for her! Loved life, could afford the repayments and no one knew I had debt. I didn’t even really think about it.

Lost my job temporarily and missed some payments, defaulted on a loan before I got a new job. Even though I calmed my spending at this point I was on less money and still struggled to keep up with payments. 1 or 2 pay day loans to keep afloat in this time too.

Out that bad place now and earning more money than I ever have, no bad debt but struggling to get a decent mortgage due to a bad credit rating.

You never know what’s going to happen but from first hand experience, do not do something now that could harm you for years to come.

One suggestion From someone else in this thread mentioned keeping a separate ‘pot’ of money for escorts! It’s great advice, it’s what I do now and it’s great. You really enjoy it more as you’ve earned to see her! Just make sure you pick a good punt to avoid been disappointed.
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Re: Anyone addicted to escorts and is broke?

Post by Ozzman244 » Sat Jan 18, 2020 1:56 pm

Rogerthedodger wrote:
Thu Jan 16, 2020 2:37 pm
Ozzman244 wrote:
Fri Jan 10, 2020 10:34 am
rothman wrote:
Fri Jan 10, 2020 8:45 am





So you are making money but cba to find a job, you also have an alcohol and prostitute addiction.....

I think you are pulling our legs sunshine, best to stop wanking over the internet and concentrate on your homework before you end up with a detention.

Idiot
I had a job before i lost it on Christmas. Now i'm broke, I'm unemployed right now and cba to get a job because i'm too bloody depressed.

Read it properly before you judge
With rothman on this - sounds like a fantasy and your comment about being depressed only came out AFTER rothman caught you out. If you are depressed, do something about it. At the very least seek medical advice but don't rely on sex and booze to be the cure all; in all probability it was those that caused your depression in the first place!
Are you stupid? both of you?? do you think i would make a joke about depression. The making money quote was me working in a higher profession before i lost it all. If you don't believe my story, idc im not here for my story. My question was if anyone was in a similar position where there are addicted to escorts and have blown all their money on it.

But since making thread, i haven't seen an escort in a month and i haven't had any money in the bank (spent my last £1 on a burger) but i'm doing fine and realised it was probably a 'phase' and not an addiction. As long as i'm living with my parents, i can probably make lies that i still have money in my bank to them.

I will probably be jobless for a very long time, because i'm still severely depressed with a shite personality and quite honestly, there isn't a cure to depression so i will live with it until it kills me.
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